Person: I made a sweater. You can have it for free if you like it.
Sweater using person: I like this sweater and I'm going to wear it. But I need the sleeves and neckline changed, and I want a different colour, and you're obligated to do it for me for free exactly like I want because you are a privileged and elitist person who knows how to make sweaters, while I, a sweater using person, do not have the time and energy to learn for myself the sweater making skills you were apparently born with.
@frankiesaxx Also would you sign this code of conduct so I can be sure you share my values while providing me with a free sweater?
@frankiesaxx Oooooh yes. This is one bad side of the medal. Other one:
Person: I'd really like to have a sweater that suits my needs, fits like a glove and looks decent by *my* standards. Tell me what you need to make this for me, for neither I can't make sweaters on my own nor do I have time or energy to learn how to do this.
Persons making sweaters:: Never mind. I make sweaters *I* like to wear and give them away for free. Take them or leave them but leave me alone with your stupid wishes.
@z428 There's that. But in fairness, if a sweater using person has detailed specs and is willing to compensate the sweater maker fairly, they're generally not going to have a problem finding a sweater maker who will be happy to make the sweater they want.
The problem comes when the sweater user feels the offer of compensation entitles them to the work of a specific sweater maker and that sweater maker isn't interested in taking the job.
@frankiesaxx I kind of agree. The problem I see, right now: For a sweater-using person, it's actually little more than choosing between "ugly" corporate sweaters available at low prices or strangely colored "community" sweaters available "for free" by people who enjoy making sweaters *they* like in their spare time. The crowd of sweater makers even *willing* to accept doing some sort of work in exchange for a fair compensation seems extremely small these days, if there at all.
@z428 idk. The sweater users of my acquaintance who don't have any sweater making skills and aren't deeply involved in the free sweater community don't pick up a free community sweater and then ask the maker for free alterations on top.
They say "thanks for the sweater" and if it doesn't fit right, they either get rid of it or find a freelance sweater maker on Fiverr to alter it for them.
@frankiesaxx Hmmm.... Maybe you're right and I'm lost in wrong analogies at the moment... 🙂
@z428 Tangled up in yarn? Nah I think you have some good points for consideration.
I think it also becomes more complicated when a sweater maker goes from pure hobby sweater making to supporting themselves on donations made in exchange for free sweaters... like are sweater wearers who like the free sweaters enough to donate entitled to design input in exchange for their donations?
@frankiesaxx Well, yes, of course this changes things quite a bit. Adding to that: Personally, I think things generally get "difficult" in situations in which things leave a mere "community" situation (different people with different skill sets yet a reasonably similar common "goal" working together to reach this goal) and enter something more similar to a "producer"/"consumer" situation (where in worst cases both goals and skill sets drastically differ). Sure, donations aren't usually ...
@frankiesaxx ... transactional, but possibly, neither the "producer" can live off donations exclusively, nor has the consumer any other option than throwing in money (be that in donation or in terms of payment) to reach its particular goals. This only seems to work as both still share reasonably similar goals and there's no disagreement about how the results should look like. But maybe I'm completely off here, I do have more software than sweaters in mind... 😉
@z428 I feel like sweaters are a decent metaphor for software. Knitting is a skill that requires time and energy to learn, sweaters themselves take an investment of time and material tools to produce, and the end product (or pattern) can be altered by other people.
The difference between sweaters and software is that for some reason people are way less likely to think if a person gives away one kind of actual sweater for free, they're obligated to do the work of modifying it free too.
@z428 I don't think this is *only* software though, I see it in other kinds of intellectual and creative labour and projects also. Toxic fandom springs to mind.
@frankiesaxx Yes, because a sweater at some point is something "material", you can assume certain costs you need to pay to even have stuff to make one. This is easier for software. But actually this is why I am so inherently pissed about whole communities continuously messing up "free-beer" and "free-speech" in regards to free software. We want "free-speech" but accept that *of course* it's "free-beer" as well. Plus, however, something else which is a bit annoying the other way round: There's ..
@frankiesaxx ... this infamous "if you're not the customer, you're the product" thingy. I guess in some way this is even right. But what to do if, after all, those who could change it aren't willing to accept users as "customers" - because this immediately would reduce their "producer" freedom a bit, as all of a sudden they would be required to think about the "consumers" and their needs? This is wholly messy at the moment: Virtually everyone pretty much enjoys bashing ...
@frankiesaxx ... WhatsApp, Facebook and the dumb "consumers" that actually are "products". But no one really tries to make the "products" "consumers" - because the very moment you even start discussing "end user requirements", you will end up with a funny mix of "how can they have any expectations while it's all free" or "they are just too dumb or lazy to learn" or "why don't they see they should do things themselves"? In the end, the "customers" remain "products" because every other ...
You're not wrong.
@frankiesaxx ... option is either worse or completely beyond their abilities. Most annoying: Few people actually are willing and ready to see and accept that, let alone change anything about it.
@frankiesaxx (Boy I am annoyed tonite, I better should call it the quits for today...)
@DialMforMara I don't make tea cozies! ;D
@DialMforMara (now that I mention it though, I always kind of wish I had a reason to make tea cozies because some of them are adorable.)
I mean, there are lots of ugly teapots out there. I almost bought one last week but decided to get a better strainer instead
@DialMforMara we got rid of our ugly teapot. I found a beauuuuuutiful giant blue handmade pottery one in a second hand shop and promptly got rid of the pink granny pot.
I should go teapot thrifting. It's not usually a thing I look for at Goodwill.
@DialMforMara ooo yes you should. Hold on for pics...
This is the big blue pottery teapot
my favourite charity shop teapot find was at the recycling center - there are four more cups as well. I was like NEED DIS and managed to get it home intact on my bicycle! :)
That was to be sympathetic, on the assumption that the sweater thing happened to you
@DialMforMara No, fortunately! Hahah I'd be like, "Give me back my sweater! You don't deserve my sweater!"
It was more a metaphor for how people treat intellectual & creative projects. Like no one (well hardly anyone) would do that to someone making a sweater or something tangible, while the same person might think nothing of demanding things like free software or fanart/fic are adjusted for their taste.
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