I want to talk about a male friend who, as far as I know, is cishet, but whenever I feel like I have to speak up about something related to feminism, gender identity and sexuality, he is there correcting false assumptions or making a joke about the conservative talking points made by someone in the group. It feels so good not having to be the only one to stand up all the time. Men, please take note, this is too rare and it makes me genuinely feel like someone has my back.