@Blahster
Hi there, in case you're genuine: when one is a woman, everything one does is "about" being a woman to some degree. When one is Black, everything one does is "about" being Black to some degree. When one is both Black and a woman, the degrees combine and increase. This is how marginalization works. If someone is acting out a racist, sexist pattern, Black women are likely to recognize that. No declaration that "I'm about to be racist and sexist!" from their interlocutor is required.
Next time, shut up and listen.
@SallyStrange when one is a women...
Look, we're on the Internet. Most people neither use their real name nor their real picture. Here's a secret: I'm not a black cat. (Wow!)
I neither assume the gender nor the skin colour of the people I interact with, because it is meaningless, it's only about their behaviour.
And now, tell me again how I suppress anyone by telling them my opinion?